How many times have we come across people who are so frigid about their thoughts that they just refuse to let go?
I have met many like that, and some of them I have closely interacted with, also.
You find these 'mood spoilers' everywhere, mouthing their venom - like- verdict at kids and adults alike, so much that sometimes I get scared that the flowing acid might actually cause burns.
I know these few ladies, who have told their children that Santa Claus doesn't exist, thus robbing them of their innocent fantasies and the joy of writing Christmas wishes on a paper. The same kids, then go around telling everyone, that their Mum said, that there are no Santas.
There are people who do not believe in the concept of celebrating birthdays, their argument, "it's just another day". The birthday song is sung in schools, as the teachers now enthusiastically put up birthday charts, with the month and name and pics of children in their classroom. So, kids are equally excited about it, and bring sweets to distribute to their friends. Thank God! Otherwise, left to such beliefs, these mothers wouldn't even let their kids have that iota of happiness also, forcing their rigidities on their children as well.
Today is Valentine's day, while over the years, the card companies, chocolate companies, diamond manufacturers and the flower shops have made a hype out of it, fact remains that for some it's special. Infact it's special for everyone, age no bar. You must be saying I love you everyday, but, nobody likes to miss out that one special occasion. Valentine's can be a romantic affair, without going overboard. Whereas there are some, who love each other, but in the daily humdrum of life, forget to express their love and tell their partner how special they are, so, this is a good day to walk that extra mile.
And if you do not believe in the display of love and affection, don't be a critic. The whole world goes gaga over 'love', couples decide to get married that day, they propose, they express, it might not last long for some, by the next year, they would be proposing or wooing another person, but hey, all's fair in love. The world is looked through rose tinted glasses when Cupid strikes.
People who do not believe in celebrating their kids birthdays, or their birthdays or their loved ones special day, have absolutely no problem attending birthday parties. If you are so firm in your belief, don't send your kid for one. What are they trying to convey to their child? How do they explain to their child as to why his/her friend's parents are celebrating their child's birthday?
How do they explain why the other houses have gifts under their trees? If Santas are not there, then why do Christmas carols have a 'jingle bell' song which is about Santa and his team?
We all tell our kids about guardian angels. We tell them that angels are watching their moves, and it's the same angel who rewards them for their good behaviour. Some, force their kids to pray, my question - have they seen God till date? That is also a belief, just as a Santa Claus is, so how can they be so sure that Santas don't exist, but Gods do? We worship a mere idol, similarly, we have seen pictures of a fat old man with white beard and an angelic face, carrying a bagful of gifts. If we can celebrate a Ganesh Chaturthi over a myth, or celebrate a festival because of a myth, without having the actual proof that something like this happened, how are we sure that Santa doesn't exist?
Everyday you might be doing loads of things for your partner, for your kids, but isn't birthday that one special day, where you remember how you felt when you held that tiny bundle of joy for the first time? When you host a surprise party for your partner, are you not conveying to your partner that his day is special for you too?
I know somebody, who doesn't cut a cake for her daughter on her birthday, because, she doesn't like cakes. But she wouldn't mind hogging at someone else's party. Till date, I haven't been able to get a logical answer from any of these mothers for not celebrating birthdays.
There will come a time, in every child's life, where they will understand the true meaning of family traditions, mythology etc.., they will reach a stage, where they will figure out, that its the parents who keep the gifts under the tree. But, let them figure it out on their own, why rob them of their innocence so early?
We as it is live in a world of crimes and criminals, lust and hypocrisy , lies and deceit, the only thing that is pure is the innocence of our children, then why do we force them to grow up overnight? What's wrong in a child writing a letter to an imaginary fat man? Atleast the fantasy is pleasant. Should we not be relieved that in spite of all the ugly things happening outside, our kids have created their own bubble of colours? That letter is only bringing a momentary happiness, I would not want to trade that happiness with ugly realities.
As usual, purely my thoughts... As an individual, I do not challenge anyone's beliefs, but I do not agree with it either. Keep your illogical beliefs to yourself, don't be a prty pooper, and for Godssake don't rob a child's excitement or kill others enthusiasm.
I have met many like that, and some of them I have closely interacted with, also.
You find these 'mood spoilers' everywhere, mouthing their venom - like- verdict at kids and adults alike, so much that sometimes I get scared that the flowing acid might actually cause burns.
I know these few ladies, who have told their children that Santa Claus doesn't exist, thus robbing them of their innocent fantasies and the joy of writing Christmas wishes on a paper. The same kids, then go around telling everyone, that their Mum said, that there are no Santas.
There are people who do not believe in the concept of celebrating birthdays, their argument, "it's just another day". The birthday song is sung in schools, as the teachers now enthusiastically put up birthday charts, with the month and name and pics of children in their classroom. So, kids are equally excited about it, and bring sweets to distribute to their friends. Thank God! Otherwise, left to such beliefs, these mothers wouldn't even let their kids have that iota of happiness also, forcing their rigidities on their children as well.
Today is Valentine's day, while over the years, the card companies, chocolate companies, diamond manufacturers and the flower shops have made a hype out of it, fact remains that for some it's special. Infact it's special for everyone, age no bar. You must be saying I love you everyday, but, nobody likes to miss out that one special occasion. Valentine's can be a romantic affair, without going overboard. Whereas there are some, who love each other, but in the daily humdrum of life, forget to express their love and tell their partner how special they are, so, this is a good day to walk that extra mile.
And if you do not believe in the display of love and affection, don't be a critic. The whole world goes gaga over 'love', couples decide to get married that day, they propose, they express, it might not last long for some, by the next year, they would be proposing or wooing another person, but hey, all's fair in love. The world is looked through rose tinted glasses when Cupid strikes.
People who do not believe in celebrating their kids birthdays, or their birthdays or their loved ones special day, have absolutely no problem attending birthday parties. If you are so firm in your belief, don't send your kid for one. What are they trying to convey to their child? How do they explain to their child as to why his/her friend's parents are celebrating their child's birthday?
How do they explain why the other houses have gifts under their trees? If Santas are not there, then why do Christmas carols have a 'jingle bell' song which is about Santa and his team?
We all tell our kids about guardian angels. We tell them that angels are watching their moves, and it's the same angel who rewards them for their good behaviour. Some, force their kids to pray, my question - have they seen God till date? That is also a belief, just as a Santa Claus is, so how can they be so sure that Santas don't exist, but Gods do? We worship a mere idol, similarly, we have seen pictures of a fat old man with white beard and an angelic face, carrying a bagful of gifts. If we can celebrate a Ganesh Chaturthi over a myth, or celebrate a festival because of a myth, without having the actual proof that something like this happened, how are we sure that Santa doesn't exist?
Everyday you might be doing loads of things for your partner, for your kids, but isn't birthday that one special day, where you remember how you felt when you held that tiny bundle of joy for the first time? When you host a surprise party for your partner, are you not conveying to your partner that his day is special for you too?
I know somebody, who doesn't cut a cake for her daughter on her birthday, because, she doesn't like cakes. But she wouldn't mind hogging at someone else's party. Till date, I haven't been able to get a logical answer from any of these mothers for not celebrating birthdays.
There will come a time, in every child's life, where they will understand the true meaning of family traditions, mythology etc.., they will reach a stage, where they will figure out, that its the parents who keep the gifts under the tree. But, let them figure it out on their own, why rob them of their innocence so early?
We as it is live in a world of crimes and criminals, lust and hypocrisy , lies and deceit, the only thing that is pure is the innocence of our children, then why do we force them to grow up overnight? What's wrong in a child writing a letter to an imaginary fat man? Atleast the fantasy is pleasant. Should we not be relieved that in spite of all the ugly things happening outside, our kids have created their own bubble of colours? That letter is only bringing a momentary happiness, I would not want to trade that happiness with ugly realities.
As usual, purely my thoughts... As an individual, I do not challenge anyone's beliefs, but I do not agree with it either. Keep your illogical beliefs to yourself, don't be a prty pooper, and for Godssake don't rob a child's excitement or kill others enthusiasm.
Wow , this is going to be my favorite post. Reminds me of those days when I used to be Santa and would give gifts to my sister till she was in eight standard. Lately she said, she knew that I was the Santa when she was in 6th standard. She never told me and enjoyed all the effort I would take every Christmas eve. She tells every Christmas eve brings those memories of childhood. You are right in saying this. I had a neighbour who said she would not allow her daughter to read fairy tales because she didnt want her to understand "LOVE" when I was gifted a fairy tale book for developing reading habits. People huh !!!
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