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Letting Go...


Whats letting go? And why is it so difficult? I asked one of my Gyaani friends, So she said, because, you put all your efforts in it and believe it will work, I said isnt that how its supposed to be?

Life always has other plans, so why is it hard to believe that we have failed?
Thats because you are  already convinced that your decision is the best and the outcome will be, like the way you expected and you forget that, other people think in the same way and you want to believe that what ever you do will be acknowledged.

This is how you Let Go, you have to believe that you can fail, that you have failed, Life goes on, it doesn’t stop for anyone.

Once something happens in our life, we don’t forget, even relationships are the same, we can never get out of them, no matter how many new people we meet,..that person and those moments we always cherish, and only we know how we feel about it, we cannot share it and we cannot undo it…

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