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The resolution to drink water has gone down the drain literally, yesterday, I didn’t have a sip of water the whole day, I realized it this morning, as I took a sip, that too because I was parched…
Sometimes….all I want is an explanation..not an apology…because the word Sorry has lost it’s meaning…


Betrayal – It happens in every relationship, EVERY… It either happens in one big way or in a million little ways..but it happens…

Filled with anxiousness today…A feeling of despair…
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My favourite Blue Jeans tore, and it was not in the right place, otherwise I could have flaunted it. “After all a jeans”, commented my friend, “just get it repaired, it would leave a visible darn mark, if you can deal with it, then fine, otherwise throw it”… Hmmm she had a point, in reality our lives are also that, isn’t it? When things go wrong in life, we try to repair it, sure, it does leave a mark.. but it mends, fixes things. Sometimes, certain situations in life are also beyond repair, then what do you do? How much emotional energy can you spend on the same relationship, same situation, same thing? At one point, we have to let it go, and accept the facts, and tell ourselves, that Yes, I tried, but it didn’t work..maybe things are better this way.
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Why do schools close for two months? When I talk about this, people say, “have you forgotten your days?”, the point is that I haven’t, and even during my school days, I never enjoyed the summer vacation, because, my parents would take us to religious places, followed by endless hours of saree shopping, and visiting relatives, I always thought school was better than all this torture…
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Was watching Kabhi Alvida Na Kehna (KANK), what I didn’t understand was, that both Dev and Maya had good spouses, who were supportive, especially Maya..then why were they not happy? And what attracted Maya and Dev to each other? Fact that they both had failed somewhere? Dev couldn’t fulfill the role of a breadwinner and Maya couldn’t have kids.. Does failure bring people closer???
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Watching Pyar Ke Side Effects..Its a cute movie, I liked the pairing of Rahul Bose and Mallika Sherawat,
This is the only movie in which I ‘liked’ Mallika.. My friend and me watched this movie in the theatre, leaving the kids in the care of their Dads..It was a girls time out..
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Wondering aloud…is it just kids who need to grow up????
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Wondering..why some songs make you feel ‘different’, I recently heard, “Pehli baar”(slow version) from Kaminey, wow what a song..beautiful lyrics, it just transports you to your lovey dovey days of first love/crush…
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I don’t understand why in Hindi teleserials, the actresses don’t change into night wear, don’t the producers have enough money? Isn’t it a misdirection? Even if they are conservative families, they can possibly show them wearing simple saree or salwar, minus the jewellery…ridiculous…

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